How to get money back from someone

Last updated: 10 November 2024

If someone owes you money and isn't paying, you need to act quickly and follow a clear process. Waiting and hoping won't work: you need to escalate systematically until they take it seriously.

Step 1: Check you have proof

Before you do anything, make sure you can prove the debt exists:

  • Written agreement or contract
  • Text messages or emails acknowledging they owe you money
  • Bank transfer records showing you paid them or lent them money
  • Invoices or receipts

Without proof, legal action will fail. If you're relying on a verbal agreement, it's much harder (but not impossible) to prove in court.

Step 2: Ask politely first

Most people pay when reminded. Send a friendly message assuming they forgot:

"Hi [Name], just a quick reminder that the £500 loan is now due. Could you let me know when you can pay it back?"

Don't be aggressive at this stage: you might just catch them at a bad time, and a polite nudge often works.

Step 3: Offer a payment plan (if needed)

If they genuinely can't pay in full, consider a payment plan. Get it in writing:

  • How much they'll pay each week/month
  • When payments are due
  • What happens if they miss a payment

This keeps the money flowing and avoids court, which benefits both of you.

Step 4: Send written requests (if they ignore you)

If politeness doesn't work, escalate:

Day 7: Polite but firmer written request "I need confirmation of when you'll pay the outstanding £500."

Day 14-30: Much firmer tone "This has now been outstanding for [X] days. Please pay within 7 days to avoid further action."

Keep records of everything you send.

Step 5: Send a Letter Before Action (day 30-45)

This is a formal legal warning that you're about to take them to court that Garfield can draft and send for you. It must include:

  • Full details of the debt
  • How much they owe (including interest if applicable)
  • A deadline to pay (usually 14 days)
  • Warning that you'll file a court claim if they don't pay

Send it by Recorded Delivery or Signed For post: you need proof it was delivered.

Around 30-40% of people pay at this stage to avoid court.

Step 6: File a small claims court claim (day 60+)

If they still haven't paid, file a claim:

  • Online using Garfield (faster)
  • By post using form N1

Court fees:

  • £35 for debts under £300
  • £50 for £300-£500
  • £70 for £500-£1,000
  • £80 for £1,000-£1,500
  • Up to £455 for £5,000-£10,000

These fees are recoverable if you win.

Timeline:

  • If they ignore the claim: you get a default judgment within a few weeks
  • If they defend: it takes 4-6 months to get to a hearing

Evidence you'll need:

  • The proof of debt (contract, texts, bank records)
  • All your attempts to collect payment
  • Any other supporting documents

Step 7: Enforce the judgment (if they still don't pay)

Winning in court doesn't automatically mean you get paid. If they ignore the judgment, you can:

  • Use bailiffs to seize and sell their belongings
  • Get an attachment of earnings order (takes money from their wages)
  • Apply for a charging order on their property

These cost extra but increase pressure to pay.

Your options compared

DIY recovery:

  • Time: 15-25 hours
  • Success rate: 30-50%
  • Risk: High error rate, missed legal requirements

Solicitors:

  • Cost: £1,000-£2,500+ (not recoverable in small claims)
  • Unprofitable for most debts under £10,000

Garfield:

  • Setup: 5 minutes
  • Fees: Fixed and recoverable (effectively free if you win)
  • Success rate: 70-80%
  • Stress: Minimal (everything automated)

Act quickly

The sooner you take action, the more likely you are to recover your money. Delays mean:

  • The debtor's financial situation might worsen
  • Your evidence becomes stale
  • They think you won't actually do anything

Don't wait months hoping they'll pay. Start with a polite reminder within days, and escalate from there.

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